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refinement. Etiquette had started as a status
symbol of the nobility, but as the middleclass began to adopt its code as well, the
old manners lost their prestige and value
as a marker of class identity. So aristocrats
refined their manners further, in order to
continue to distinguish themselves from
commoners.
The evolution of table manners is one
of the most evident cases. Up until the 17th
century, forks were essentially a luxury
item; made of silver or gold, they were a
status symbol reserved for the upper class.
But as the centuries progressed, and forks
became de rigueur for the lower classes
as well, the rich upped their dining game,
and developed special utensils for each
dish — salad fork, dinner fork, dessert
fork; soup spoon,
teaspoon, dessert
spoon; dinner
k n i f e , b r e a d
knife, etc. And
all the utensils
were to be placed
on a certain side
of your plate and used only during the
appropriate part of the meal.
But of course, in time the common
people simply came to imitate those
newly refined manners too, forcing the
nobility to refine theirs even further. And
on the cycle went, until both the upper
and middle classes lived an elaborate and
detailed set of rules for their conduct.
didn’t have to work to earn a
living, had the time to refine
their taste and manners, and
the way they talked, walked,
dressed, and ate, separated
them as the elite and gave
them a special identity. Their
refinement set them apart
from all that was “vulgar” —
i.e., common.
An interest in manners
greatly expanded during the
Renaissance, as merchants,
clerics, and other emerging
professionals slowly began to
form a nascent middle-class.
This tier of society began
to mix a little more with the
landed aristocrats,
a n d w h i l e t h e
nobility knew how
to demonstrate
courtesy from lived
experience, the
bourgeoisie had to
intentionally study
and practice their courtly manners. Thus,
etiquette books proliferated during this time
as self-help manuals for middle-class strivers
who wished to be able to visit court and mix
comfortably with their social betters.
As courtesy began to be more
democratized, it started to be called civility
— the proper conduct for all citizens to
embrace. The democratization of manners
also led to their further and further